The Couple Mechanics

The resultant moment of a couple is called a torque. A torque is a special case of moment. Well, you can just forget about the mechanics of couple as it meant in Physics.  Peek into into my kaleidoscopic view of love between a couple.

The word “kaleidoscope” is derived from the Ancient Greek καλ(ός) (beauty, beautiful), είδο(ς) (form, shape) and -σκόπιο (tool for examination)—hence “observer of beautiful forms.” I will strive to persuade you that real love is worth a try.

That song is a passionate kind. You can just ignore the message and start listening to me, instead. Relationship counselors identified four types of couple: complementary style, best friend style, conflict-minimizing type and emotionally expressive ones. Each type has a major strength and weakness. It sure is a media myth that you have it all in your relationship. I believe ours is still developing its own kind (we’re pretty young, you know). True Colors style?

Now you can listen to that song and digest its message. Nothing else makes a person happier than being accepted for who she/he is. Nothing could be more challenging than trying to better ourselves -to bring out the best in us. When a friend asked me what love is (cliche, yes it is), I simply answered: finding someone you can grow with and sticking with that person through good and bad times. 

Happy 2nd year, Neil. I love you. (P.S. I picked sepia just in case our future kids ask for a treasured,old, dusty photo.)

One Reply to “The Couple Mechanics”

  1. Hehehe. Mwaah.

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